Friends
As I approach the 2 year mark I have been thinking a lot.
The postie arrived this morning with a parcel. It was a care package from my dear 'Family of Friends'. All the way through this they have periodically sent parcels, flowers, fruit, cakes, cheese, books, socks, seeds, Percy Pigs amonst other things.
This group of extraordinary people who I class as my Friend Family were a group of people I worked with a while ago. They since have, like me, moved away got different jobs but there was always a special bond. A bond which has supported me through the hardest couple of years of my life.
They were also those people who were alongside me in our IVF journey. They watched, listened and supported us ( Paul &I) as I took the injections, swallowed the hormones, experienced the mood swings (due to hormones) under went the egg transfers, lived through the 2week waits, took the pregnancy tests. They were also there when I miscarried.
They were also the cheerleaders who were there when I progressed in my career. They have always been there.
They aren't the kind of friends that I go out with every week. But they are the sort of friends that when we are together it's like it's always been. I think that because we all worked together and were very much like a family and looked out for each other.Like a family those are the bonds which bind. I also think the core of this group is that they have all experienced some kind of grief, some kind of loss. I am very grateful for their kindness and friendship.
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